Should you buy a vibrator for your daughter? It really depends on the girl in question. Is it time to have a mature discussion about her sensuality? Then again, if she’s the one who broached the subject of buying and using a vibrator, it’s probably long past time to have this talk. Whether or not you choose to buy a vibrator for your daughter, it’s important for her to know that you’re always open and available for discussions about her concerns and questions about her sexuality and that she can talk to you without fear of judgment or condescension.
First, it’s most important to talk to her about the feelings and sensations that she’s having. If she’s of an age where she might become sexually active, it’s important to talk to her about birth control and safer sex practices. It’s also important to let her know that masturbation is a safe way to achieve sexual release and even more important to let her know that you don’t frown upon masturbation and that it’s a perfectly normal and healthy activity through which she can blow off some sexual steam.
Which brings us back to the vibrator. Approached in the context of a safe alternative to sexual congress, you might find in the course of discussions with your daughter that using a vibrator would be the best way for her to deal with her sexual feelings. It’s a safe alternative to sexual intercourse and it also provides her with a way to explore her sensuality and learn about what makes her feel good along with what sensations are a turn-off.
It’s not easy to talk to your daughter about sex. There’s always a part of every parent, even parents firmly grounded in reality, that always look at their children as wide-eyed innocents who need to be protected. The important thing is to realize that your daughter is maturing and needs your guidance in sexual matters. If you think this is the right time, then you should feel perfectly comfortable buying your daughter a vibrator.
Should I Buy My Daughter a Vibrator
